I am sharing this with the sole intention of being able to support some one's journey and in the process hope to reflect and learn from my inner higher being. Any stress on "I" should be taken as my present inability to articulate the sentence properly and not ego. 

I had the privilege to attend Jagriti Yatra 2013 which is a 15 day trip around India. The trip more than external was an internal journey for me. I have written everything as it came from my heart and you may not find any chronological continuity. 

Even before starting, I got loads of blessings and wishes from noble friends in Pune and Mumbai. As soon as the journey started, I got the opportunity to serve and interact with fellow yatris. The role models shared their journeys and inspired us all to keep working on our paths with perseverance.
The story and the learning, of how all our actions are “Swaha” and the “tathastu” (fruits of the yagna) are just the result of out “Swaha” and the deity to whom we made the offering to, shared by Devdutt Pattnaik will always remain with me.

The yatra, for me, was a result of invitation by Anupreet and inspired by Sheetal. Goli inviting me by saying that a kindness spirit is needed on the Yatra. I had met so many people during my 2 year stay in Pune, who had transformed after the yatra, that I didn’t need to think twice before going on it.
Two days before the yatra, I was wondering about what can I “do” in the yatra and that’s when I heard Rajshree share about how Madhu bhai in Ahmedabad had told her that we are human BE-ings and not human DO-ings. That was my answer – I just had to “Be” myself during the yatra and not “Do” something.

The yatra was my first experience at trying kindness on my own, but realised in just few days that I was able to BE myself and do the small acts only because of the STRONG support I had from Anupreet and Goli, who held me when I was weak, who supported me in whatever I tried, the unconditional LADDER they were for me. I remember telling the new yatri group we formed by the end of yatra, that whatever we plan to do, we can be assured that Anupreet and Heidi will be in (Goli had left yatra by the time of this conversation). That also reminds me what an inspiration Heidi was for me throughout the yatra. She would just go about spreading gifts around the train. There were so many anonymous kindness letters all around. She literally was a validation machine on the train, she would just keep encouraging (and inspiring) each and every one she met on the train about his/her qualities, sharing the idea of MBL and spreading love and kindness. She was a rockstar working with magical energy and teaching me by action.

Another energy source on the train was Parth. He would come up with all sort of kindness ideas, get people excited about what he was doing and get more people to join us. He was a friendship machine and would just find good people all around the train, befriend them and start sharing about kindness and generosity. Had he not been there I doubt I would have been able to be myself and do even 5% of what I was able to with his support. He had got a strong group of Vivek, Arti and Aakanksha as a core group who would just do anything that we discussed and were open for literally all ideas.

All this just kept me questioning myself, just pushing myself and introspecting. Can I do this as they are doing, the questions they asked me pushed me for the first time into a spot where I was sharing about kindness and generosity and I was able to give answers which I never knew myself nor had I ever  thought of.  And were they really my answers? No. They were just a summary and my interpretation of what I understood from the MBL gang I had lived with and learnt from. There were several occasions when I didn't know the answers. For example 2nd day itself a girl asked me, "How do you explain these small acts of kindness changing the world to a left brained person like me?" Having been and lived with the MBL gang, it shouldn't have been difficult but answering for 2-3 minutes made me realise that I was simply beating around the bush and wasn't able to explain her. That really made me think. I SMSed the question to Sheetal and he replied,"Walk and the path will appear" and that's what I did for the remaining 13 days-Just kept on being myself, being in the moment, trying to be mindful and acting where needed.

All yatris asked me different questions and I answered from my heart, which I seriously never knew before myself. Somebody asked me,"Why anonymous gifting?" and my answer was,"If I gift you something, your gratitude will only be for me, but if anonymous person gifts you your gratitude will be for whole universe and that gratitude will be of a higher magnitude and level and this gratitude you CANNOT contain within yourself and will come out."
One day Parth himself asked me,"Gifting makes a heart to heart connection, but anonymous gifting doesn't; then why gift anonymously?" and I replied,"There are 2 aspects of what we are trying. 1. Making the heart to heart connection for which his point was valid. 2. Making the world a better place and anonymous gifting was done with a hope for it. Both are essential." I don't know whether what I spoke was correct or not, I had never even thought of the question, but some divine within me brought out the answer instantaneously and with confidence.
Once I remember giving a one hour lecture to Anupreet also! Ha ha ha. One would say “What?” But it happened and she listened, that too with attention. I realize that was too audacious of me, but she seemed happy and did try many of the things I had suggested.

I started asking myself, " Who am I to give so many lectures? I haven't even been able to control my own anger, tension and confusion and I am telling others about being kind?" But then, it was an experiment in being in the present and I did and spoke what I felt like at that moment. I can't express my gratitude in words for the questions people asked me and the questions I asked myself. One of the questions which had started emerging slowly since November, but I was able to articulate it only towards the end was, "What am I doing?" I am serving agreed, I am serving with all my heart, agreed, but still what am I doing? I could see people with going around in their groups, groups ranging from size of 2 to 10, their own core group with whom they would always be, some really good friends they had made in their 12 days and there I was, serving but no one I could say, who had become a new close friend. What am I doing with my life? I am preparing for UPSC, yes theoretically but am not able to give my heart into studying the amount I need to. I derive my energy more from service than food, but back at home, I just feel weird, struggling with my own personal practices, maintaining the peaceful energy at home, not even being able to study. What am I doing? I put this question to Anupreet and she really opened her heart. She shared how important it is to maintain the relationship with parents, how necessary it is to go down at the other person's level to make a heart to heart connection and not just expect the other person to come to yours. I realized I was being in the moment only in the sense of finding where I could serve, but not where I could make a heart to heart communication. I never even tried for it. I don't even know how to initiate one.

Anupreet shared stories of how Nipun bhai, Raghu and Anant put themselves at other person's level and then magic starts flowing, how they really make heart to heart connection. Anupreet (and Goli for the number of days he was with us) was a really strong support for me all throughout the yatra. She was my shoulder for the number of times I felt really weak and felt vulnerable and wanted to cry. The yatra also made me face my own weaknesses, the times when I got irritated, angry, were opportunities for me to humble myself down, I don't know how many times I really did, but at least realized sometimes that I was having those emotions. I tried using the points Anupreet suggested for the last two days and found that they were all true. By last day I also realized the fact that I am not making any special friends was also because of my own attempt to maintain my version of equanimity and finding god in each and every one, so how could I have a different relationship with the same god I am trying to observe in them.


On the last day, during final interactions, I realized that whoever I had met or interacted with, in the last 15 days  had the same level of respect for me and that reminded me that I was able to maintain the same level of relationship with them. I too had found so many virtues with them that it was a blessing for me to be able to spend some time with them. I realized friendship is not about being able to spend enormous time with each other, but the ability to understand each other and still accept and respect them as they are. Well writing this, definitely sounds very egoistic and self-boasting, but ya it shows that I am not able to express in the best way, or maybe I am really making an attempt to cover up my weaknesses. Maybe. 

And just to note down the various small acts I was able to do in the yatra:
  Wrote anonymous notes to people I was inspired by and learnt from. It was my way to honour them and express my gratitude.
A guy shared in a large group that he didn't receive a gift in many years and I just took out a gift I had received from Urban Ashram and left it in his seat with a note. I later found out that he had told about it to many people and was amazed. 
Paid forward many blessings and gifts I had received from Urban Ashram.
Parth shared the idea of eating what people were wasting, Heidi supported it, and I just helped them execute. In the process Anupreet, Goli, Aakanksha, Arti, Vivek organically joined. Many others like Sneha and others whose name I don't remember also started telling people who were eating only, that what might happen when they go towards dustbin and I think that would have made a lot of difference too and I don't even know who all were there.
Anupreet had the idea of putting a smile deck on all bogies on 1st January and asking people to do an act of kindness this year. I shared it with Parth and he brought together his team and implemented it by waking up early at 5 AM.
Parth again wanted to do something for last day and we came up with the idea of hugging people, organically with a validation. I don't know how it went as it was supposed to be organic but must have gone well.
Talking to the mess staff, people whoever we met, asking their name and interacting. 

Truly speaking these were just the tip of iceberg, and visible things which should and would amount to Shunya (zero), the real actions, happen at intention level, the well-wishing level, spreading positive energy level which at visible level is anyway shunya.

I also came up with the question of should I and if yes then how much should I share about the acts I did, and felt that sometimes to explain what you are saying, to explain that walking the talk is not hard, it became necessary to share in groups that I did the action and the result was this. eg. I shared it in the group of 20 people made for the yatra for discussions, about the gift I left behind for the guy who said he hadn't received any gift. I was sharing about anonymous gifts and one person said that this guy received one and I had to tell that it was me only who left that and that person only shared how happy and moved he was. So yes, maybe sharing a few acts you have done might help you explain your points. I remember sharing plenty of what I did with Anupreet in the 1 hour lecture, well mainly to boost her energy up as I felt she was a bit low. Anupreet used to say in the last 2 days whenever I thanked her that she didn't do anything and that just reminded me of Khush saying on the last day of my stay at ashram that she didn't do anything, and we (me and Divya) just got what we had to. Seriously, what is counted doesn't matter and what matters doesn't get counted.

So this is what I remember of the yatra, the feelings I had, the learnings I had. People thanked me for what I did, but every time I could just think of the shift I have had due to living and learning with the MBL gang and just thanked them. It just made my faith in micro-shifts stronger; made me understand how many to many connections actually work; how the process of kindness is slow, needs to cross an activation barrier but once done the impact is long-lasting. The technical side of me says it’s like a nuclear reaction, you need the minimum energy and ingredients to start the reaction, but once it starts, the many to many neutron reactions can produce enormous energy.

I can't end this writing without a round of gratitude. Gratitude to Anupreet, Goli, Parth, Heidi and Sandeep for being the first level energy source for me all throughout the yatra and then their parents, teachers, friends,environment etc. who made them the way they are and the loop will keep going on. Maybe it will encompass the whole universe.
Thank you. 

 

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