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Startup Service: Dance Of Abundance

Nipun Mehta
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Every entrepreneur had a story. Growing up, Yash and his friends would often step out of his house at 3AM to get “idli sambhar” from a street fellow on a bicycle. More recently, he got to thinking about the styrofoam plates he ate from, and wondered if there was an alternative to stashing his trash in a landfill for 500 years. Two years ago, Aabha experimented with her diet, and after losing 12 kilograms, she discovered that her food habits had changed her lifestyle! Now, she wants to help others in similar situations. Ashish graduated from IIT, and with his wife Divya, they chose to move to the Himalayas and live very simply. What started out as playing with kids, turned into weekend retreats and now is culminating into a local school. As a professional photographer, and mother of a seven year old, Shaalini wondered if parents can be empowered with a fun and creative toolkit to teach values to their kids. For seven weeks, Meet decided to live in seven rural villages; meeting unsung heroes who have dedicated their life to service in remote areas, he saw the need for a bridge connecting them to Urbanites. A former designer and professor at CEPT, and a daughter of life-long art teacher, Lahar wanted to use the power of art to help people connect with themselves. Ketan brainstormed ways to make a humane cow-based culture relevant in today’s era while Delhi-based Shashank discovered that colleges need student-run clubs to cultivate empathy.

More than 20 such ideas had come together under one roof.

Before starting a project, an entrepreneur is usually asked for “business plan” that hangs on a fundamental “bottom line” -- financial sustainability. While that may seem reasonable for some ideas, it can be a crippling one for others. What about entrepreneurs for whom value creation goes beyond financial wealth? What if the desired outcome was to deliver intangible value that couldn’t be monetized? What if they weren’t interested in designing for scale? What if the goal of the enterprise was inner transformation of its stakeholders?

Startup Service, then, was a three-day gathering to ask such questions, innovate different frameworks, and build sustainable efforts with an eye towards multiple forms of capital. Or more fundamentally: how do we retain love in “labor of love” projects?

On the first day, all the initiators pitched their projects to the entire group of 50. Outside of the entrepreneurs, many others had come just to support. A dentist from Surat, business leader from Chandigarh, a banker who stood in Lok Sabha election and spent 14 hours a day walking the slums, India’s social entrepreneur of the year in 2009. Lots of young people, and lots of people with established mentors. Artists, technologists, businessmen, educators, poets, students, investors, philanthropists. One person had a company with 3 thousand staff, another was a CSR head of a Calcutta based outfit, a third was a professor at Indian School of Business in Hyderabad. In his opening presentation, Deven referenced how Steve Jobs planned his funeral before his passing, and gifted all his invited friends a copy of a book -- Autobiography of a Yogi. It turned out that one among us was a friend of Steve, who was at his funeral and got that book. All in all, there was a wide-ranging experience and talent in the room.



By the end of the first day, we collectively chose 8 projects to focus on and self organized into teams. Each team had a leader, a mentor and supporters with a diverse array of skills. The plan was to cultivate the idea, clarify the thinking, build a prototype, and then present on the morning of the third day. 24 hours left, sleep optional. :)

Deven and Neerad were the two anchors of the event, for whom, this event itself was a labor of love. Each had their own story of arriving here. After a long history with startups, particularly in the financial sector, Deven ended up at a 10-day meditation retreat in 2009; there, he had an experience that entirely changed his perspective on social change, financial sustainability, and innovation. Quoting his brother in law Ragu, he now felt that, “Money is like salt. You need some, but too much can spoil the sabji.” :) Similarly, Neerad was working at a big MNC with 300 people working under him; one fine day, he was given a mandate to layoff more than a hundred of them. “It was completely inhumane, but that somehow didn’t matter in the hierarchy.” It forced him to ask deeper questions, like “What is the DNA of an institution where ‘work is love made visible’?” “How can work environments be seen as a space for transformation?” “What are the personal practices that we can cultivate so we can be good trustees in our leadership positions?”

Each of the teams were working hard on the projects. Some teams had divergent ideas before ultimately converging. One team chose to disband because they couldn’t settle on a cohesive vision. Sheetal and Reena, whose musical “Maitri Festival” project didn’t originally get selected, found a way to bootstrap a “Maitri Fest” on-site itself. Ketan’s Girej team went to a local ‘gaushala’ (cowshed), engaged with the community, and brought back some fresh milk for everyone. :) In conversations, Parag and Aabha realized that they want to experiment with radical generosity while Sachi and Yash became clear, for the first time, about the foundational values of their budding company. Shaalini’s team was crafting up a kindness board game and a sample value-kit. Lahar and Priya were co-creating art in the spaces on the retreat campus itself. Meet’s team literally pulled an all-nighter for their presentation.

Outside of the diligent work, the second day also included thought leadership from industry veterans. In the morning, Michelle Long and Birju Pandya skyped in from the US. “Trees make noise when they fall, but not as they grow,” Birju said to encourage young entrepreneurs to create selflessly. In the afternoon, we had three remarkable local speakers -- Madhu Mehta, visionary of the STD-PCO movement; Jayanti Ravi, nuclear physicist who is now labor commissioner of Gujarat; Sridhar Rajagopalan, founder of Educational Initiatives. Each was asked to share anecdotes of cross-roads when their values were tested. In just an hour, they touched everyone with their candid and diverse stories of honesty, courage and compassion. Moreover, as the speakers left, they themselves were very moved: "We never get asked such questions." Jayanti Ravi closed the session with a beautiful Kabir song.

In the evening, Jignasha, Khushmita and their dedicated volunteer team, hosted a picturesque, outdoor silent dinner. It made room for teams to pause and reflect deeply on their entrepreneurial intentions.  After dinner, Sheetal and Reena offered an optional "Maitri Fest", under the moonlit night and artful candles and flowers lighting the open space. Everyone joined. Bhumika opened with a song that moved her (and many of us!) to tears. In fact, throughout the hour, many tears of compassion were shed as stories, songs and poems were shared with a transcendent grace.

A lot can be said about each of the projects. Shunya, biodegradable tableware. Sahaj, alternative school in Himalayas. Gram Setu, bridging urban and rural. Co-create Art, inner transformation through art. Onus, empathy in colleges. Girej, cow-based culture. Health for Life, change your diet, change your mind.

And a lot more will be said over the coming months, as everyone continues to support all the projects.



Startup Service, though, was not just creating content but redefining context. As a previous participant reflected: "I always thought fear and greed were the only way we could motivate people to create value and the spirit of competition is what drives us to perform better. But for the last three days, I've come to see the true potential of cooperation and compassion." Couldn’t be better stated. We all felt the love. Shukantu, a former football player whose project didn’t get selected, wrote: "This was the most blissful and memorable time that I have spent in my life so far." Divya, while working on the Sahaj project, had a breakthrough: "Up until yesterday, my project felt huge and my personal transformation felt small. Today, I’m feeling reverse."

Day Three was presentation day. By design, there would be no "winner". Everyone got eight blank sheets of paper; after the presentation, each person would write whatever form of capital -- connections, time, money, ideas, synergies, prayers -- they wanted to offer, and drop into a beautiful ‘matka’ for each project. As each team completed their heartfelt presentation, they were asked to stay on stage until the clapping ended. Sometimes they stood up there for more than a minute. :)

By the end, all the projects felt like a giant family.  Deepa Iyer, an economist turned poet, said this of her time: "After the 3 days, what I found myself experiencing was a deep sense of community support that goes far beyond ideas and implementation. I felt as though my soul journey was being held in a space of love.  When we are all leading with love, entrepreneurship of a new kind follows, which looks and feels very different."  As a poignant surprise, Siddhant and Bhumika surprised everyone with slideshow featuring a photo from the weekend, alongside their quote from the opening circle: 



In the after-hours, the entrepreneurs opened their pots. One would be hard-pressed to find such smiles of being so deeply supported. “Everything I have,” someone offered to a project. “500 bowls of sugarcane tableware for future retreats.” “Whenever you need a vacation, use our home in Goa.” Financial capital too.  Everything was offered like you would in a monk's bowl -- no strings attached. Laced in one-way-love.

We can all give, create, care. There is always enough to regenerate love in the world.

Over these three days, we started the dance of abundance -- and it hasn’t yet ended.



Posted by Nipun Mehta · Oct 25, 2014
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18 Reflections shared

Harsh Oct 21, 2014
Wow. The quotes in the slides are powerful.What must have emerged must have been rocking. :)
Rahul Oct 22, 2014
Dear ones ... I am still in the zone and in a sense, yet to reach home because mentally I have not left Sughad. Here are some moved by love moments I take back from the retreat. The words of Jayeshbhai with which Deven started with "pehla prem karo pachhi baaki badhu karo" and how it actualized during the 3 days formed the central message of what I carried back from the retreat. The emphasis of keeping unconditional love at the center of everything we do and then everything else falling in place on its own - was coming live in each of the (1.125 quadrillion?) connections that were seeded during the retreat... This message kind of came to me clearly during the final presentations (I know, I am really slow!) when context mattered so much more despite the great content that was shared as [...]
Sukanta Oct 25, 2014
The most blissful and memorabke time that I have spent in my life so far...the memories will be embedded in my soul forever :) in humble gratitude thanking all resoonsiblevfor this....
Sukanta Oct 25, 2014
Sincere note of thanks to the countless volunteers who conceived and executed this noble and exhilarating journey for all the participants. My deepest gratitude to one and all who ensured that this would remain as a cherished journey for as long as I breathe. I would like to pledge my silent commitment as a volunteer to any project as the owners would deem appropriate in the days to come. During the course of this memorable journey I was fortunate to have some key moments with various participants and would humbly take this opportunity to share my heartfelt thanks as these learnings will be what I will treasure going forward. A special note of thanks to my sister Sheetal for inviting me to be a part of this phenomenal spiritual experience. I will remember : Deven - Smiling inspiration [...]
Deepa Iyer Oct 25, 2014
Thank you so much for sharing the pictures of the gathering. I have been trying to find words that would do justice to what I experienced over the last few days. Here's my reflection, as inadequate as words are, in encapsulating such a priceless gift as this gathering was: Startup Service was truly an experience of love made visible. We often talk about creating or wanting to experience a field of love - what I realized in the three days was that when the inspiration to serve from the heart meets a collective intention to serve our highest truth, an automatic process of trust transports us to a dynamic field of love, suspended in timelessness, thereby allowing the best of each person to be multiplied several-fold and reveal itself in magical ways. We witnessed the manifestation of this ma [...]
Reena Oct 25, 2014
Dear Ones,

Truly ... the greeting makes so much sense to me right now ... 'dear ones'

Felt the oneness and the honouring of emergence like I haven't before ...
The abundance and love seemed soo real and tangible!

My tears flowed freely, abundantly ... and happily, never cried so many happy tears in 3 days ever before :)

Rahul's sharing was very lovely and I resonated to it a lot ... I too looked up during the silent dinner and saw Jayeshbhai ... lovingly 'over'-seeing everything, the manifestation of life as it needs to be, sustained, thriving, flowing ... I am sure each one of us is in a new orbit, a plane of love, trust and courage.

Feeling blessed and very grateful to each one of you and the birds and trees at Sughad!

Do call upon me any time ... it will be my privilege and pleasure to serve you,

Maitri, Prem, Prem, Prem!
Nandini Hirianniah Oct 25, 2014
Immense gratitude for inviting me over for this true from the heart event!
Mehul Oct 25, 2014
My heart is filled with Love & Gratitude for such a wonderful experience created by each & every beautiful soul at START UP SERVICE :-) The name START UP SERVICE and MAITRI SPACE makes so much sense to me after being there with you all for 3 awesome days, It indeed is "START UP" of "MAITRI" & "SERVICE". "LOVE" , "GRATITUDE", "MAITRI", "TRUTH", "SERVICE" & "LIFE" which were merely words before mean a lot to me. Three days were more of self realization and search within which has helped me to create a path for my rest of life. i entered the gates of campus with the hope of shaping my project or intention with all the great heads, hearts and hands that were to attend the event. But as the time passed the anxious soul settled towards the selfless love and service realizing that it is all [...]
Divya Oct 25, 2014
Right after the Startup Service gathering when I left Sughad, I wrote this in order to remind myself of the few realizations that happened during different interactions with noble souls: 1. Inner purification is why we do any project, so ensure that I am aware of this higher purpose to purify my inner Self through whatever project I do. 2. I need to open my hearts to allow other beautiful souls to contribute in a manner other than financial capital. 3. Detachment from the project OUTCOME- whether it is success, or failure, what matters is the process, how much do I grow in the whole process. Remember Universe and I, both are complete in itself, it doesn’t matter if I add or subtract anything from it. 4. I need to share and put my intentions into the Universe to m [...]
Jhanvi Oct 25, 2014
This was the second Moved By Love gathering I attended. During the first one, 2 years ago, I was shaken by Love, this retreat held me in stillness, rooted through love.

Where my being kept shifting from me to we in every moment, was in awe to see the diversity yet oneness of purpose.

How amazing it felt to drown myself in the moments of oneness during the project, deeply joining heart strings with pratyush (true mentor), deepa (the artist), khushboo (ever patient), kalrav (provider) and meet (most beautiful soul, my prem bhai for life) and every single person who joined their hearts, heads & hands for us, with us.

As I close my eyes and images of every divine soul I met flash by, it brings a smile, my heart sings - moko kahan dhundhe re bande, main to tere paas me...

Sab ka mangal hoy re

In deep gratitude,
Jhanvi
Mehul Oct 25, 2014
My heart is filled with Love & Gratitude for such a wonderful experience created by each & every beautiful soul at START UP SERVICE :-) The name START UP SERVICE and MAITRI SPACE makes so much sense to me after being there with you all for 3 awesome days, It indeed is "START UP" of "MAITRI" & "SERVICE". "LOVE" , "GRATITUDE", "MAITRI", "TRUTH", "SERVICE" & "LIFE" which were merely words before mean a lot to me. Three days were more of self realization and search within which has helped me to create a path for my rest of life. i entered the gates of campus with the hope of shaping my project or intention with all the great heads, hearts and hands that were to attend the event. But as the time passed the anxious soul settled towards the selfless love and service realizing that it is a [...]
Parag Oct 25, 2014
Dear Deven, Neerad, Swara, First of all many many thanks to you 3 and all the other volunteers who have served so selflessly, and lovingly. Receiving such love and service itself has propelled me to step up efforts towards service and the "Eat for Health" venture, and most other aspects of life. The love and sense of community created by all the participants also was very beautiful and contributed to that. Here are some of the other highlights - in no particular order: The high levels of energy, enthusiasm, and love that the team members brought to the projects What a terrific way to tell people their time is up - with a hug. Even though people may have really liked more time the environment was such that one was grateful for the time and opportunity, and the love one had, ra [...]
Aabha Oct 29, 2014
So many beautiful reflections! With my limited writing skills, i have been trying to put down my experience of the three days. After contemplating long i figured, this is one place where I can be vulnerable and not be judged, so here I am sharing some of my feelings…. One of the things I realized is that Startup Service has stirred something within that none of the MBL retreats so far have. i feel like all this while, i was only soaking my feet and feeling the waters but this time i have been completely soaked. There are too many things that have happened for me during this retreat. All this while, the intention to serve was only an intention being held and spoken of. This retreat gave me a spring board to take off and practice serving with ‘no strings attached’. So gra [...]
Deepa I. Nov 4, 2014
I really feel that Startup Service is the kind of space that needs to be nurtured to allow for alternative forms of talents to blossom and find expression. I myself had several doubts before registering -- whether my idea was too small or insignificant to be 'pitched'. There is such a baggage around the word 'entrepreneurship'; I come from a conditioning that always prepared me to polish my skills to be a good employee for someone else's enterprise. So once I signed up for the event, I had butterflies in my stomach and maybe a few thoughts of withdrawing at the last minute, not knowing whether my idea had any value in terms of visible impact on the world. What I found after I experienced being part of the 3 day process was that I experienced a deep sense of community support that goes f [...]
Frank Lane Nov 7, 2014
It is easy to see the greatest export from India is loving enlightenment!
BeInHeavenNow.com
Nilamaunty Nov 9, 2014
Wow!wow!!wow!!! My 'standing ovation 'to the start up Service!!
I can feel the slowly building up of positive beautiful energy in this universe from all over the globe ! I was always worried what the future was going to be for the next generation .....but now I have confidence that it's going to be a 'Wonderful World ' with all the dedicated kind and Passionate children of ours!
Please let me know if I can be be any help and support to any one of you! Keep us posted and I will keep sending more power , love and blessings to all your start ups! I'm ready to be part of the Dance!!!
nisha Nov 12, 2014
Wonderful to see so many good seeds being nurtured.
BMDoddaiah Dec 2, 2015
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